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Book Review: How to Win Friends and Influence People

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There was a time when I read an endless amount of Self help book and due to too much of quantity, my mind forgot to register its quality. Anyways, amongst all those books was 'How to win friends and Influence people' by Dale Carnegie . How to win friends and influence people' is a quite simple book mentioning different sub categories to cater to all aspects of much needed improvement. Whether it is 'How to win people' or 'ways to make people like you', it highlights those things which are necessary in today's enviroment for an individual to develop these habits and style. This is a very small book and very impressive. 'How to win friends and influence people' might not give you a 100% result, but it will definitely show you your faults and areas where improvements are needed. Some of the takeout from the book is as follows: Be Genuinely interested in other people : Sometime we are so busy in our own life that we forget even about those

Domino Effect!

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We have all played with domino and we know what happens when one domino fell.. All the other domino fell one after another. Such game also applies in life. You will realise that our life is also like domino. If one good or bad domino fell, other  one fell after another. Each thing in our life is interconnected and effect on one leads to effect on all. The reason why there are so many self-help book, concept, philosophies and studies is because they all talk about balancing your domino in such a way that fall of one doesn't lead to fall of another one. To explain the logic, let's take an example. Mr. X is working in corporate firm and living with wife and parents. One fine day, he got a real bad shouting from office due to some mistake in work. This shouting lead to frustration and anger in Mr. X this means one domino fell. He brings this at home and when his wife ask or tell him something, he gets angry at his wife. Another domino fell. Wife is taken back by such an